When we think about children’s learning, it can be easy to look for the things we can see — recognising their name, counting, writing, knowing colours, completing a puzzle or creating a piece of artwork.
But some of the most important learning happening during childhood can be much harder to see.
It happens when a child tries to put their own shoes on rather than immediately asking an adult.
It happens when they pour their own drink, spill a little, and work out what to do next.
It happens when they negotiate with another child about who will have the next turn.
It happens when something doesn’t work the first time…and they decide to try again.
It happens when they recognise that a friend is upset and wonder how they can help.
And it happens when they begin to say, “I can do this.”
These everyday experiences are building incredibly important life skills.
Through play, relationships, routines and real responsibilities, children are learning how to communicate, cooperate and listen. They are developing independence, confidence and resilience. They are learning to solve problems, make decisions, manage emotions, think creatively, take appropriate risks, adapt when things change and understand the needs and perspectives of others.
These skills don’t develop through worksheets or by adults always showing children the “right” way.
They develop through doing.
Sometimes that means giving children a little more time to work something out.
Sometimes it means asking, “What do you think we could try?” rather than giving them the answer.
Sometimes it means allowing a mistake to become part of the learning.
And sometimes it means trusting children with genuine responsibility — even when it would be quicker for an adult to do it for them.
At Acacia Hill, our focus on Life Skills is about preparing children for life.
So, when you hear that your child spent part of their day serving their own lunch, helping a younger child, negotiating over a toy, gardening, tidying their environment, solving a problem with friends or persevering with something they found difficult, be proud, there is much more learning happening than might first meet the eye.
🌿 Look beyond the activity and you will often find the learning.
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